Okay, so what's the definition of a perfect boyfriend? Is there one? Are all men actually assholes because of their fucked up genetics that they can't help?
What do females expect from guys and can they deliver?
I'm only 17 and have much more guys to go through, much more heartache and a whole lot of disappointment that can't really be helped. However, because of my age, finding the right guy is hard as hell. On the one hand, I could go for the mature adult of about 18-20 but will they only want me for sex? I could go for someone my age but most are either too immature or seen as only mates and that's all they ever will be. I could go for someone younger but they are either immature, want to think that they're older and know all about sex or are simply chavs.
This could be viewed as slightly stereotyping but going on my experiences alone, those are the conclusions that I am drawn to for now. I have no doubt in my mind that not everyone is like this because if they were, I'd just give up on guys altogether.
These aren't the typings of a lonely single girl that desperately wants to find the right guy, it's just something that's been niggling at me for ages.
Also, females do mature faster than males and that's genetics, you can't change that. You are generally better off with someone older than you when you're my age but they usually just want the sex. When I asked for hugs and kisses from a recent ex, I got "people are going to think I'm gay if I keep doing this." I knew it was a joke but it isn't always about the sex, why does it have to be? I'd rather have hugs and kisses my whole life and no sex at all than just sex all the time with no emotion because that fucking hurts.
If you're a guy and you think showing your emotions is gay and faggoty then I pity you.
One more point I just really have to get off my chest: being clingy is annoying when you're in the relationship and it's even worse when you're out of the relationship and don't want to be with the person anymore. It won't make you look more desireable and it won't make me like you, it will make me feel sorry for you and eventually I will end up hating you! STOPPIT! *breathes*
This post had a point at the beginning, I don't know if it still does...
Additional info: the picture at the top is Noel Fielding! 
Noel Fielding's picture does not imply that he would be the perfect boyfriend, it is just a picture.
LittleGhost
And yeah 17 is a bit young for a serious relationship but I am a bit confused right now about if I want a relationship, if I don't, am I straight etc. It's only because I keep stupidly thinking that a boyfriend would make me happier and where I'm gonna go when I move out. Teenage life is confusing and hard, whoever came across that has a point but it's blatant really.
I guess seeing me go on about boyfriends is like me seeing a 13 year old going on about it, I'm thinking, "What the hell?? You're 13!"
It's cool being single now though
God! You're really good in expressing yourself! ike your style
But I have to say something, you're only 17!!! You shouldn't look for a serious relation. I mean, okay, who doesn't want kisses, emotions and stuff, but can you not get that from friends? Am 22 myself and I have the opposite problem. As soon as I split up with someone I find someone new, and I actually WANT to stay single. There's nothing better than having that space, freedom, fun! And if you want sex you have sex. If you want hugs you finf someone. Am desperatly in need of fysically contact myself, but not necessairly from a boyfriend.
But then again, the grass is greener on the other side. You want everything you don't have isn't that correct?
My point is though, that there are plenty of guys, and man mr Rights (trust me) why would you wanna meet one of them now? Have fun, enjoy and write that blog when you're 28!
Then your ex, saying people might think he's gay if he kisses you on the street and liewise? What kind of guy is that? Not a man if you ask me! Good you ditched him! Not very manly thing to say ;-)
Take care and continue writing...
//Jo